When a distant office says “we’re here to help,” the “help” often arrives with strings: paperwork, delays, one-size-fits-all rules, and unintended harm. People lose their voice, local knowledge gets ignored, and dependency can replace dignity.

This isn’t a jab at compassion; it’s a warning that compassion without humility can control instead of lift. The best help empowers people to stand on their own—neighbors, churches, and businesses solving problems close to the ground—while public officials keep the path clear and protect everyone’s rights.